Going through a divorce is an emotionally charged and life-changing experience. Whether you initiated the separation or are responding to a spouse’s filing, preparing for your initial meeting with a divorce attorney is one of the most important steps you can take. At Klie Law Offices, we help clients throughout West Virginia and Athens, Ohio navigate the legal complexities of divorce with confidence and clarity.
To make the most of your first consultation, it’s essential to come prepared. Below is a detailed pre-divorce checklist to help you gather the documents and information your lawyer will need to advise you on your rights, options, and next steps.
Why Preparation Matters
Your attorney can provide much more accurate guidance when they have a complete picture of your situation. The first consult sets the tone for your legal strategy, and being prepared shows you’re taking the process seriously. It also helps your lawyer spot urgent issues—such as hidden assets, domestic violence, or temporary custody needs—that might need immediate attention.
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Essential Documents To Bring
These documents will help your divorce lawyer assess your current situation and start building your case.
1. Personal Identification
- Driver’s license or other valid photo ID
- Social Security cards (for you and your children)
- Marriage certificate
2. Legal Documents
- Any court documents already filed (divorce petition, summons)
- Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements
- Existing court orders (child support, custody, protective orders)
3. Financial Records
- Tax returns (last 3–5 years)
- Pay stubs (last 3 months)
- Bank statements (checking, savings, joint accounts)
- Retirement account statements (401(k), pensions, IRAs)
- Investment account statements
- Credit card statements and personal loans
- Mortgage and home equity loan documents
- Car loan/lease agreements
- Property deeds or titles
4. Assets and Debts List
Prepare a list of all:
- Real estate owned (jointly or separately)
- Vehicles
- Valuable personal property (jewelry, art, collectibles)
- Business interests
- Debts owed individually or jointly
5. Household Budget
- Monthly expenses (utilities, groceries, insurance)
- Childcare costs
- Health insurance premiums
6. Information About Children
- Birth certificates
- Current school information
- Medical records and insurance info
- Special needs or ongoing treatments
- Preferred custody/parenting time arrangement
Personal Preparation
You don’t need to bring just paperwork. Emotional and mental preparation matter, too.
Questions To Ask Your Lawyer
- How does divorce work in West Virginia or Ohio?
- How long will the process take?
- What are my custody rights?
- Can I stay in the family home?
- How is spousal support calculated?
Goals & Priorities
Think about what outcomes matter most:
- Do you want primary custody?
- Are you focused on keeping the house?
- Are you worried about retirement accounts?
Knowing your priorities helps your lawyer shape your strategy.
Emotional Readiness
Divorce is a legal process—but it’s also deeply personal. Come prepared to talk openly. If domestic violence or emotional abuse is part of your story, don’t hold back. Attorneys at Klie Law Offices have experience handling sensitive and high-conflict cases with compassion and discretion.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
What if I can’t get all these documents before the first meeting?
That’s okay. Bring what you can. Your lawyer will help you request additional documents through discovery, if needed.
Can I bring a friend or relative for support?
Yes, but let your lawyer know ahead of time. Anything said in front of a third party may not be protected by attorney-client privilege.
Will my spouse be notified I’ve met with an attorney?
No. Your consultation is confidential.
Should I stop using joint bank accounts?
Don’t take action like that without legal advice. It could negatively impact your case. Bring your concerns to the consult.
How do I choose the right divorce attorney?
Look for experience, communication style, and client reviews. Read what past clients say about Klie Law Offices.
What Klie Law Offices Offers
Our divorce attorneys serve clients in Buckhannon, Clarksburg, Morgantown, Parkersburg, and Athens, OH. We understand the emotional and financial stakes involved in divorce. Our team is known for:
- Prompt, clear communication
- Strategic advocacy
- Personalized, compassionate support
- Deep knowledge of West Virginia and Ohio family law
Visit our Clarksburg divorce page to learn more.
Take the First Step Today
Divorce is a major life event, but you don’t have to face it alone. Bring this checklist to your first consultation so we can hit the ground running. At Klie Law Offices, we’re here to help you protect your future.
